
Stop Ghosting People
Gavin is so close to his dream job, he can almost taste the free office lunch. He’s been through nine interviews in total, some of them...


A Different Kind of 10-Year Challenge
I don’t care what you looked like ten years ago. Unless you’ve endured the needles and lasers of a skilled dermatologist, I’m guessing...


How to Laugh at Yourself
Let’s get one thing straight right off the top. You are, I’m sorry to say, a ridiculous human being. Your body makes rude noises. You get...

How to Not Screw Up Your New Year's Resolutions
My favorite part of Christmas is the moment (usually on New Years Day) immediately after the tree has come down and the ornaments and...


What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do
I recently had lunch with an old friend (we’ll call her Rachel). I hadn’t her seen in a long time – life, jobs, family… you know, but...


Discovering Your Purpose
Let’s talk about your purpose in life. Feeling uncomfortable? Yeah, me too. After all, we’re only talking about the underlying reason for...

How to Find True Balance in Your Life
Last week we talked about my former client Janice, who had the terrible realization that she didn’t like who she was at work. Through a...


What's Holding You Back?
I don’t know about you, but I have a little voice in my head. And it seems to know better than me. It’s popped up at various times in my...

Great Leadership Begins with Solid Values. What are Yours?
Last week, I wrote about the six basic human needs and how they impact your leadership style. This week, it’s all about values. As you’ll...


How Your Six Basic Human Needs Affect Your Leadership Style
When I work with a new Unstuck Leader client, the first thing we do is a needs analysis. Before we can begin to understand the limiting...